Monday, June 15, 2009

Blog "On A Break" until early July

Today - Monday - Rebekah and I are hopping a plane and headed to Europe! Tampa-London, then London-Pisa. There we will enjoy a remarkable two and a half weeks with our son, Andrew, in Tuscany, Rome and Milan.

Odds are I will not be blogging until I come back to the States. Too much computer time is anti-relational... and Rebekah and I want to enjoy one another on vacation without me disappearing into blog-posting!

So, if you're any kind of an "A Life Examined" reader, then please be patient. This blog is on vacation!

Back at our house, we have people staying every day and every night we're gone. They'll be taking care of things, having their friends over, mowing the yard, doing whatever. The dog and the cat will be happy and in good company.

So watch this space, especially when I start posting some great stories and amazing pictures from Italy.

Meanwhile, live as if you mean it! Life is exceedingly good.
Love and blessings - DEREK

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Good conversation and a benediction

A lot of good dialogue was generated by yesterday's blog. (The "I'm really irritated" post). People responded via Facebook and email, sharing a good assortment of insight and wisdom.

Some people expressed surprise that I even get irritated! But I decided right at the beginning that this blog - if it really is "A Life Examined" would always reflect honestly what's going on in my heart and mind.

Generally, and I think this is fairly obvious, I really do own a positive spirit.

Read the entire post, and your benediction for today, at "A Life Examined". Click on the photo - DEREK

Friday, June 12, 2009

We're all wrong at least some of the time...

Today I'm irritated about people who misrepresent the truth or who misquote what other people have said in order to gain ground for their own point of view.

I'm irritated with people who cannot tolerate differing viewpoints, as if it's not possible for two or more people to disagree yet still work together toward what we have in common.

I'm irritated that people don't even listen to the other side of a conversation if they suspect the other person may not parrot their own exact views.

I'm especially irritated when these people assume they know what the other person is thinking, and make statements regarding those assumptions that the person they are misrepresenting is then not allowed to clarify! And so they are unable to even hear that person speak, consequently missing any opportunity to come together.

Read about how irritated I really am! "A Life Examined" - click on the picture...

Thursday, June 11, 2009

By "Free Press" we don't mean it shouldn't cost anything...

One of my favorite morning routines involves coffee and the newspaper. Typically, just before I set out to walk Scout Labradoodle, I set up the coffee maker and set the timer so the brewing cycle will have just completed when we return. Forty-five minutes later I pour two mugs, tuck the newspaper under my arm, and head back to wake Rebekah.

We spend the next 30 minutes or so reading up on the news, planning our day, and sipping hot java - this morning it was Sumatran. It's a good way to get going together.

I can't help but think about what we will have all lost the day the newspapers finally close up shop. Read the complete story at "A Life Examined." Click on the picture.

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Direction for my path

"In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths." (Proverbs 3:6 KJV)

Pretty-much every day (at approximately 95% consistency) I begin by reading the short Upper Room Meditation, available on line - click here. It serves as a great jumping-off place for the ongoing formative conversations with God that help keep me dialed in as I think, imagine, vision and write.

Today's scripture caught my attention for two reasons.
  1. It speaks to me clearly, especially in terms of my "Life Examined" credo.
  2. My son, Andrew, has adopted the reference as his "signature" text. Every time I read an email from him, or check his facebook page, "In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths" stares right back from the page. If that's not encouraging for a father, then I don't know what is!
Follow along with my ramblings on the subject at "A Life Examined". Click on the Bible photo.
- DEREK

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

More about the light...

One of my regular columns for the Tampa Tribune gives me a chance to talk with pastors and other spiritual leaders over in Plant City. Those stories - plus scores in Brandon, dozens in West Tampa, and several in Temple Terrace and South Tampa - have added up to well over 300 in-depth interviews with ministers over the past few years.

One story I've been following involves the death and resurrection of a struggling faith community that had been unable to maintain a viable ministry in a changing neighborhood.

Read the inspiring story at "A Life Examined" - click on the photo.
Blessings - DEREK

Monday, June 8, 2009

What makes for a great church?

Another good Sunday at church this weekend has set up some reflective thought about what exactly makes great community of faith: How can some churches be flat and uninspiring - and then the simple fact of walking into other houses of worship produces a tingle of anticipation or the unmistakable warmth of coming home?

There's an unmistakable electricity in the air at my church; it's as if people can sense the presence of God, even when walking in before the service starts. What exactly explains that?

Believe it or not, I have a theory. Here goes:
  • First and foremost, it's about Jesus, not us. People at our church are Jesus-followers before they are anything else. It shows.
  • It's not the great preaching - although I don't think I've ever heard more consistent sermons or better teaching or entertaining messages than we enjoy every week from Rebekah and Tim...
  • It's not the music - even though I believe our Praise Band is phenomenal and the choir at 11:00 is excellent. Mark and Brad do a phenomenal job leading worship.
  • It's not the people - but I do have to say there's a genuineness and a welcoming spirit it would be hard to replicate anywhere else.
  • And it's not because we're a packed-out house or there's energy from a huge crowd - Attendance is good but it could be better.
So what is it that makes the difference? Presbyterian pastor and author Graham Standish (click his name to read more) talks about the idea of "Blessed Community" in one of his books. He argues that every congregation, even the smallest, has a key group of folk (sometimes maybe only 2-3 people) who pray for the church on a regular basis. That core is the "blessed community."...

... My theory about First Presbyterian of Brandon (click the photo for the church web-site) is that we have an absolutely HUGE blessed community. It starts with the elders - who work together as a ministry team before they are administrators. Then, any given week, between ten and thirty small groups meet, each with anywhere from five to twenty people who pray with and for one another, study the Bible, care for one another, do mission, and pray fervently for the whole church.

... Additionally, a high percentage of church members take plart in mission, outreach, service and other projects every day of the week. Serving meals to the homeless, tutoring children, visiting the sick - reaching out all the time and in scores of different ways.

Consequently, by the time the community gathers together for worship on Sunday morning, the Spirit has been active and engaged all week long! That's why the electric spirit present in worship has very little to do with the quality of the preaching or the music or anything else. It has everything to do with what happens Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday. The "blessed community" drives our life as a faithful congregation.

That's why, even though we'd like to see an increase in attendance, around 70-80% of the church is in worship together any given Sunday (the average for churches our size is 35-40%). We have membership a little over 500 but weekly attendance around 400.

I firmly believe that the membership statistics for a church are maybe the least important number when it comes to understanding the health of a given church. The real question is how deeply do members love Jesus? And how does that love translate into service?

If church members are living authentic lives of self-giving faith, following Jesus as active and faithful Twenty-first Century disciples - then everything else that matters will fall into place.

Then - when anyone walks into church on a Sunday morning - the presence of God will be obvious. God's people, being the people of God and doing the work of God - because we love Jesus.

Love and blessings - DEREK